How TO Tell If a Woman Wants to be Approached

by Hannah Ang, May 24, 2009

Can't pick up the signals?
Women can be quite complicated to read at times. The way they want you to figure out things for yourself instead of just saying out loud what they really want and things like that, since they believe it is much more profound once you have done it yourself. It is quite painful to try and approach a woman, especially when you are getting mixed signals from her. It would come to a point that the guy would wish the woman would be the one who will do the approaching.
That would have been a simpler thing, she comes over and that is it- done! And there would be a more peaceful world for man to live it. Thing is, that is just not the case most of the time. Only a few to none of the women would be willing to put themselves in a position wherein they could possibly be rejected.
So in order to know whether she wants to be approached or not is to look out for her signals, if a woman gives of a certain vibe or signal that she is open to being approached by you. At times, these kinds of signal are obvious, at times they are very subtle and it gets hard to tell. Whatever the case it, you should be able to spot these signals.
If women are into you, the chances of them just saying it is slim to none. They will most likely send out non-verbal signals to the guy and just wait for the guy to make the move.
Signals that are given off by women are not hard to miss. If you do miss the signals, they will just conclude that you are just not interested. Therefore, spotting these signals is important! If they think you jut are not into them, they will just move on to the next guy that will catch their attention, or maybe even the next guy who gives them attention.
There are those women who also give unsubtle and obvious signals like a wink or raise of an eyebrow. She night even pass near you and look you in the eye.
When you are able to spot the signals, approach her with confidence. Move and react to the signals right away. You can not wait around waiting for her to make the first move or make any further obvious signals because she just will not do that anymore. The lady will wait if you are confident enough to go and approach her. If not, she will think she will have to move on to the next guy.
If a woman if not romantically interested in you, it would probably be not a problem for her to approach you first and introduce herself, shake your hand, and move on or get right down to business and not waste time. If otherwise, then she is most likely interested.
Aggressive men are perceived and associated to being strong mates, which is attractive to a woman of course. If you do not make the move, I am close to being definitely sure that you will be written off from her list. So take the chance and make the move yourself. Man up!